Biblical Guide to Attracting Your Spouse (3)
As we continue in our series of
Biblical Guide to Attracting Your Spouse, we come to the third one - Package
The Oxford Dictionary says to package is to 'present (someone or
something) in an attractive or advantageous way'.
After you have DISCOVERED and accepted Your SELF-IMAGE (who you are) - the next step is to package yourself well.
It is not just about your content; it is more about your
container. People see you first before they hear you. Dress well, package
yourself with excellence.
Put your best foot
forward.
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| Put Your best Foot Forward |
We all have our issues and
weaknesses. The difference is that while some use their issues and weaknesses
like a wrapping paper to wrap themselves up, thereby making them obvious to
everyone, the wise ones wrap themselves up with their strengths, such that you
get to know their strengths before you meet their weaknesses.
Men look at your
package.
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| Men Look At Your Package |
Someone may say, 'but God does not
look on the outward appearance'. You are right. So if you want to marry God
keep all your goodness within and your weaknesses without.
You have need to package yourself
well because Human beings on the other hand look on the outward appearance.
1 Samuel 16:7
...People look at the outward
appearance...
You are address the
way you dress, therefore; dress for your future address.
Package yourself well.
Your spouse (to be) already has a
job, he is not looking for another one.
These tips might help:
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Young lady, stop being
aggressive and easily offended in public.
Smile more often and be
respectful.
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Young man, drop the
'hustler' mindset. It tells ladies you are more interested in money than a
wife.
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Dress well and
modestly. You need a spouse not a one night stand!
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Don't volunteer for
things in public that are not your strength area. Leave the choir if you can't
sing VERY WELL and join the ushers!
Let your package be solid and your content be rock-solid.
Be your best,
Alfred ‘Femi ALAMU
Pastor/Trainer/Life-Coach
